Dating should i call him
Not Calling is Tougher than Calling While you are waiting for his call, a tremendous amount of angst builds up inside of you. Or what if you wait too long to call him back and he calls someone else? What if he thinks you are mad, or worse, what if he thinks you are playing a game?
You are stressed, nervous, sad, and angry all at the same time. You walk around with a cloud over your head, and no matter what else you do to keep yourself occupied, it’s still there. Then suddenly all that emotional build up is wiped away. He’s called (or in many cases, texted.) You are satisfied for the moment. But then, not ten minutes later all the angst is back. Is it possible you could push him even further away at this point? Now you have to make the right play or you could ruin everything! For whatever reason, earlier you decided that this guy did not deserve a call back, either right away or maybe at all.
In reality there are still a lot of rules that apply when it comes to women dealing with men.
We have gotten very far from the things we were taught as children but now we are starting to believe that our parents werent so foolish after all.
However, more and more of us are finding that the old ideals still tend to work the best when it comes to getting a guy interested in us.
In fact, many will say that it will only help you gain the upper hand.
So why can’t we follow this one little-bitty, time tested, widely known piece of advice? What if by not calling back he thinks you are a total bitch?
Advice: If you like this guy, don't be afraid to show it. No guy wants to know everything about you on the first date. Challenge his viewpoints every now and again, in a friendly, non-confrontational way.
Maybe this guy is just looking for a fun time, but you have given him signals that you want something more. He doesn't need to know your mom has been divorced three times, that your dog has a personality disorder and so on. Nothing will make him run faster than constantly picking a fight. Don't be afraid to disagree with him every now and then. It's hard to tell someone at the end of a nice evening that you enjoyed his or her company, but you don't feel a romantic connection.